Play to Build Confidence
Cat wand toys are excellent and effective toys to help cats build confidence, reduce stress, and express their natural hunting instincts in a safe and positive way. Wand toys (such as feather or string toys on a stick) are especially useful because they allow you to interact with your cat while keeping a safe and comfortable distance.
- Choose a wand toy that has something interesting to your cat on the end (feathers, mice toy)
- Start the session when your cat is calm and relaxed, not already overstimulated
- Begin by gently, and slowly moving the wand, pausing, then moving again. Think about how cats or mice move. Slow, freeze, run, dash away, zig zag, slow down again.
- Keep the toy low to the ground like an animal, and move it around, avoid waking your cat in the face or annoying them.
- Watch your cat - are their eyes dilated and big? They might be working up to a pounce and enjoying the anticipation! Do they like to pounce and chase, or stalk?
- Allow your cat to catch and bite and kill the toy. Celebrate them for the wild hunter they are!
- Keep the toy low to the ground and move it away from your cat, rather than towards their face
- End the play session by letting your cat catch the toy and “win,”
- Finish by giving them a treat to end on
- Put the toy away after the session so it retains novelty and value for next time
Tips:
- Keep play sessions short: 2-5 minutes is great depending on the cat!
- Always practice [reading your cat’s body language - link]
- Finish before your cat becomes frustrated, giving them something to lick or chew as a calming reward to end on.